During the insertion process of the IUD, I experienced discomfort that was worse than childbirth. Despite discussions with the doctor about my pain tolerance, as a Black woman, I felt that my pain was downplayed and ignored. More transparency is needed about the potential discomfort of getting an IUD.
It took almost a year for me to adjust to the IUD, but I decided to keep it for its effectiveness and the convenience of not having to take a daily pill. It also lowers my risk of cervical cancer, which is important to me as someone with a history of high-grade precancerous cells. Knowing that the IUD is there gives me peace of mind.
LIN C., 34
New York City
“I found that communication helped with my discomfort.”
I learned about IUDs from my ob-gyn at 23 as an alternative to the Nuvaring. I opted for Mirena for its ease of use and insurance coverage. Despite feeling nervous on the day of insertion, communication with my doctor helped me manage the discomfort.
I later switched to Liletta and recently had it removed as my husband and I plan to conceive. The IUD was a low-hormone option that suited me well without significant side effects.
EMILY L., 29
Tallahassee, Florida
“The nurse seemed annoyed and tried to gaslight me, saying, ‘It’s not that bad.’”
My IUD insertion appointment went terribly due to extreme pain and dismissive treatment from the nurse. Despite being recommended the IUD by my doctor, the painful experience and lack of respect led me to decide against it.
I urge individuals considering an IUD to thoroughly research their providers to ensure respectful and supportive care.
ROSA P., 24
Brooklyn
“I got one begrudgingly because I felt as though my future needed to be protected.”
I chose to get an IUD for birth control and to alleviate period pain and ovarian cysts. However, the insertion process was uncomfortable and led to complications like excessive bleeding and increased cyst formation. Subsequent doctors revealed information about potential side effects that were not previously disclosed to me.
Reflecting on my experience, I felt pressured to get the IUD for protection and wish I had been better informed about potential risks.
Experiencing something as traumatizing as getting an IUD inserted can leave a bitter taste in your mouth. It’s important to remember that one gynecologist’s opinion is not the be-all and end-all. Seek multiple opinions and choose a provider who truly listens to your concerns.
Mackenzie D., a 29-year-old from New York City, shared her brutal experiences with IUD insertions. She described the process as downright barbaric, feeling faint and experiencing intense pain both times. Despite the excruciating pain, she still recommends the IUD to her friends due to the benefits she has experienced, such as lighter periods and few physical side effects.
Maria D., also from New York City, had a similar harrowing experience with IUDs. She suffered intense cramps and discomfort after both Mirena and Skyla insertions, with her gynecologist dismissing her concerns. After a year of unbearable pain, she decided to have the IUD removed. Despite trying again with a different IUD, she ultimately swore off them due to the ongoing discomfort.
Mari H., a 37-year-old from Atlanta, dreads the day she has to have her IUD removed after a traumatic insertion experience. She compared the pain to post-birth sensations, but without the relief of an epidural. The lack of preparation and empathy from her medical providers left her feeling overwhelmed and unsupported.
These stories highlight the importance of advocating for yourself and listening to your body when it comes to IUDs. While some may have positive experiences, others may face intense pain and discomfort. It’s crucial to ask questions, seek support, and prioritize your own comfort and well-being. Ultimately, your body deserves to be treated with care and respect, no matter what medical providers may suggest. Rewrite the sentence.
